I've noticed a decline in the blog world lately. Anyone else think so? My theory is that everyone is uber-busy - I know I am. I've also noticed that some long-time bloggers are calling it quits. I, for one, am really missing Javamama. Yesterday I checked in on Christy at number14.org, and though she has returned, it's only on a "no private stuff" basis. All of this gets me worried. I have posted pictures of my child on this site, but now that I read more and more bloggers who are concerned for safety (re: pictures) I begin to doubt my decisions. I have been thinking a lot about my blog, and I have even noticed a sub-conscious shift in it. I find that I am posting less about my family (the whole reason I started my blog) and more about crafts/general thoughts. I realize I am not the most interesting person in the blogosphere, but I'm not in it to get the laughs or the site hits. If no one comes to visit I'll be okay, a little lonely at times, but okay. I haven't decided whether I'll take down any personal pictures, but I do think I'll stick to what I've been doing for the past few weeks. Anyone have any suggestions??
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Hi Charla!
I think it's perfectly normal for you to feel somewhat protective of some thoughts, memories, photos etc b/c you're a mom! And that's what moms do! They protect and they worry! Call it mother bear instincts, I guess.
I chose to password protect my babies' photos only b/c I've had some interesting (frightening) situations where perfect strangers lurked and spied my old site. I felt "stalked" in the strangest, cyber way possible. I think that each person's case is individual, and always know that whatever choice you make is the best one for your family (even though they may differ from mine or X's or Y's). Good luck! :)
Posted by: rubber-sol | September 22, 2004 10:56 AM
I agree - and with the holidays coming up - ferget it. Too busy...
Posted by: justjenn | September 23, 2004 11:12 AM
How scary! I never even thought about the stalker aspects of the internet. I don't even know what to be worried about because I hadn't really thought of possible ramifications. Should I be scared?
Posted by: Giao | September 24, 2004 12:40 AM
I try to keep photos of my son in particular to a minimum these days. I used to just spill it all. A few important rules for me are not to ever tell anyone exactly where I live, or even really blog about what town we're in, etc. I also don't give specifics if we're going to go somewhere around town, etc until after the fact. At every site, I do believe there are lurkers. They could be totally harmless, but maybe not. Just something to keep in the back of your mind.
As far as people coming to visit... girlie, you can't get rid of me! I'll always be kickin' around here. :)
Posted by: liz | September 25, 2004 05:42 PM